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5 Ways to Honor Your Egg Donor Throughout Your Child's Life
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5 Ways to Honor Your Egg Donor Throughout Your Child's Life

by
Meela Imperato
September 30, 2024
Last updated:
October 31, 2024
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For families built through egg donation, acknowledging and honoring the egg donor can be a meaningful way to celebrate your child's conception story. While every family's approach will be different, here are five thoughtful ways to recognize the important role your egg donor played in helping create your family.

1. Create a special keepsake

Consider creating a memory book or box dedicated to your family's egg donation story. This could include photos of your family, mementos from your fertility journey, and age-appropriate information about egg donation. As your child grows, this keepsake can serve as a tangible connection to their origins and a starting point for conversations about their unique beginnings.

2. Honor Donor Conception Awareness Day

Donor Conception Awareness Day, observed annually on April 27, provides a perfect opportunity to acknowledge and celebrate your family's unique egg donation journey. This day shines a spotlight on donor conception, raising awareness and offering support to families built through this special process. You might mark this day by:

  • Having a family discussion about donor conception, tailored to your child's age and understanding
  • Reading books about donor-conceived families together
  • Participating in online or local events organized by donor conception support groups
  • Sharing your family's story (if you're comfortable) on social media to raise awareness
  • Making a small donation to an organization that supports donor-conceived families or fertility treatment access

By observing this day, you're not only honoring your egg donor but also helping your child foster a sense of connection with the broader community of donor-conceived individuals and their families.

3. Practice gratitude

Make expressing gratitude for your egg donor a regular part of your family's routine. This could be as simple as saying "thank you" to the donor during bedtime prayers (if you do those) or including them in what you're thankful for during holiday gatherings. This could be as simple as expressing thanks during bedtime rituals, sharing a moment of gratitude at the dinner table, or including them in what you're thankful for during holiday gatherings.

4. Support egg donation causes

Consider getting involved with organizations that support egg donation or fertility treatments. This could mean participating in awareness events, volunteering, or making donations. Involving your child in these activities as they get older can help them feel proud of their origins and understand the broader context of assisted reproduction.

5. Write letters to your donor

Even if you have an undisclosed donation arrangement, writing letters to your donor—whether or not you actually send them—can be a meaningful way to express your gratitude and reflect on your family's milestones. These letters can become part of your child's keepsake collection, offering them insight into your feelings about the donation as they grow older.

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By openly acknowledging and appreciating your egg donor's role, you're helping to foster a positive sense of identity for your child and reinforcing the love and intention that went into creating your family.

There’s no one way to approach honoring your egg donor. The most important thing is to find something that feels authentic and comfortable for your family. 

As you navigate this aspect of your family's story, we are here to support you. Whether you're just starting your egg donation journey or looking for ways to discuss donation with your growing child, we're here to provide resources and support every step of the way.

Read more:

  • Nine Things To Know About Raising A Donor-Conceived Child
  • Will My Donor Conceived Child Want To Meet Their Donor?
  • I'm a Fertility Psychologist. Here's What I Want You to Know About Growing Your Family Through Egg Donation
  • How to Talk to Your Donor-Conceived Child About Their Conception Story
Meela Imperato

Meela Imperato is Head of Marketing at Cofertility where she oversees marketing strategy, specializing in brand building, strategic communications, and content development. With 15 years of experience running marketing departments for startups in health tech, she is also a regular contributor to publications like Forbes, The Wall Street Journal, HuffPost, TechCrunch and more. Imperato earned her masters degrees in Investigative Journalism and Professional Writing and her bachelors degrees in Professional Writing and Creative Writing from Carnegie Mellon University.

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